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Fat women are targets because people know they can take advantage of the fact that we experience acute romantic discrimination. Typically, after spending months or even years engaging daily about very personal matters, the fat woman is met with shock when she shares that she has intimate feelings. When that happens, she feels not only the pain of rejection but also disorienting confusion about her ability to decipher when someone is interested in her. There are plenty of fat, bald and old guys out there with wives, girlfriends and partners and no one flinches. If it helps any I’ll go on record as someone who -likes- «flat-chested» women, I have all my life. Maybe cuz I grew up in the alt-rock scene with a lot of skinny girls with no breasts.

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I have a friend with an impressive bust and it causes her nothing but problems – backache, sciatica, sore neck – all the flippin time. It kind of depends on what I am wearing. It is hard to wear any cute tops without adding some kind of structure in that area.

I’ve learned that being attractive is, first and foremost, about loving yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you won’t invest in yourself, so you’ll always look average, but never feel even that. For the longest time, I hated the way I looked. I still don’t really find myself that attractive or worth desiring. I sympathize with her, and would never willingly make someone feel bad about themselves.

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My wife is an A cup and she’s the most beautiful woman on Earth. There will always be shallow men, best to ignore them and carry on. I’m at the “learning to invest in myself” part. It’s not like I have a ton of money or time, but the only thing I can do is invest what I can to make myself the best version of myself I can be. R/tinytits NSFW Also, all boobs are good boobs but flat is justice. Meanwhile he will be popping viagras, wearing an earring still and trying to pick up ladies as a desperate attempt to validate his self worth.

They don’t feel ready to ask out the women that they truly desire. They need to work their way up so to speak. I know that may sound cruel, but this is about what guys think when they date plus-sized women. So maybe this goes without saying, I don’t know, but I am going to say it anyway. Big girls usually get big for a reason, and usually that reason has something to do with food.

In this case it’s just 2 former colleagues engaged in shop talk, among other topics. You know that realtors only take a 3 month class and then take an exam? I like women who are real, natural, have a certain physical approachability to them.

Did your mother forget to teach you manners and morals? Did she ever use the words respect women? If not shame on her and if so, shame on you!!!

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Despite all my efforts at self-destruction, I was still society’s version of fat (as well as the doctor’s.) However, when I was at my smallest and most ill I had more dates than I’d ever had in my life. From hair trends to relationship advice, our daily newsletter has everything you need to sound like a person who’s on TikTok, even if you aren’t. I’ve made quite a bit of progress with my boob-styling since them, but to this day, I’m still figuring out how to flaunt my goods in a manner befitting them. It’s a daily struggle to make sure I’m not falling out of my top, spilling over the edge of my bra, or generating enough friction to keep the house lights on. Authentic sharer of life lessons and dating foibles.

Once a source of utter embarrassment for me, I’ve come to love my breasts like old friends. They are my constant companions, after all. But it took work — because when you’re a woman with a chest so large that it almost dominates your appearance, it’s hard to bust through the immediate assumptions people make about you, based on your breasts. After all, for centuries, most cultures have believed that there was a tie between a woman’s chest size and her sexuality. But having a large chest doesn’t automatically make you Jessica Rabbit.

The size of the chest isn’t a factor when I try finding a partner. It’s more about who am I happy being around and if she’s happy with me. In fact, it’s even been suggested that males who like small-boobed women are more sophisticated, as mentioned above in a study. Small boobs go hand-in-hand with thinness, so, therefore, there’s a preference for skinny, small-boobed women. This is more about culture than biology.

I don’t think it’s the statement itself that needs to go, it’s the attitude and the phrasing. As far as I’m concerned, if someone states that they’d prefer a guy to be over 6 feet tall or a girl to be fit, that should be fine, as you’re just stating a preference. Thing is, however, that most people tend to phrase it as «don’t bother trying unless…», which portrays a crappy and entitled attitude. Even if I were to meet the stated ‘standard’, I’d still not want to hang out with said person because of their attitude. What if wasn’t written as aggressively as “no short men” but more like “I like tall guys”?

When that didn’t work, I decided to ditch diet culture and fatphobic men instead. Ever since my ladies reached critical mass around 9th grade, I’ve frequently had awkward conversations with men and boys alike. I’ve known several men who would look away from me when they spoke to me, and many of them later admitted that it was because they had no idea where to look. (Uh, how about my eyes?) They’re the first thing about me that gets pointed out by catcallers, and the last thing anyone wants to actually talk about with me. And though there are exceptions, bald dudes aren’t my jam (though I’ve fallen hard for some guys with receding hairlines).