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Go out and have some people, if it doesn’t work out it’s ok, date some more. Dave…..I am 50 and I have no problem taking care of a man’s physical needs. I enjoy the physical contact and I’m sure I’m not the only woman my age who still wants that type of intimacy on a regular basis.

A 50 year old woman can be as sexy as one in their 20’s? No, physical impossibility…….men want youth and beauty. All you old crows made your choices….


I messaged a number of women over the first couple of months and never even received a reply. I started to wonder whether there was something wrong with me or with my own profile, but then I received a reply from a lovely lady in her early forties who was divorced with three children. She is of Philo background but lived in Aust.

If he can’t work it one way I’d hope he would be able to do it another way. I’m pretty white bread when it comes to sexual practices but my assumption there is a lot to work within the non alternative sex path. I don’t share with no one and I would prefer a partner who is liked minded. Finding a younger male partner I guess isn’t that hard but few would be interested in a long term relationship.

I see this repeated on this website many times and I wonder where it comes from. The whole idea of “upgrading” to a younger woman and leaving a wife for a younger “model” is just a lie. Sometimes, but very very rarely I see a woman years younger married to a 50+ guy but only when she really needs the stable life and support. They ALL come with children and usually they are from different countries so they also upgrade the lifestyle for their children.

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«A major reason as to why dating is so much harder in your 50s is because you’re much more set in your ways and values,» says certified mental health consultant and relationship expert Claire Barber. «This isn’t a bad thing; it just means that it can be harder to get into the flow of dating because you have less patience for people who you don’t vibe well with.» I have no idea what the heck I’m doing!

At the end of the day, a big age gap just gives you more opportunities to strengthen your problem-solving muscles as a couple. This is especially important if the haters are closer to you, like your parents. It’s hard to think our parents are wrong and even as adults we often think they still know what is best for us, so don’t let yourself get sucked into that kind of thinking. The great thing about dating is that it gives you a chance to decide if you are compatible with someone else, so don’t let someone’s age be the reason you deny yourself a chance at happiness.

Don’t let it rule your lives

Neither is there any reason to treat others in that ‘boat’ with unkindness when we find they are not for us, lets just move on without blame or rancor. Well, it seems to be a total nightmare for both sides, judging from the comments I’d read here. I am in excellent shape physically – gym, swimming, mtb, hockey, etc. at 58.

In many ways, dating men is still the same as when you were in your twenties – communication remains key, intimacy is still awkward – but, with age and experience, comes some key differences. Your difference in years may elicit some unfortunate assumptions and remarks, but if you truly care about each other, stay focused on how you feel. «Try remembering the things that you love about the person as an individual,» says Paulette Sherman, a psychotherapist and certified dating coach.

He did not get one ounce of pity from me. He can have his 2nd, 3rd, 4th or whatever mid life crisis at someone else’s expense. I too find it difficult to date in my 50’s. I fell in love with a man 2 years ago who is the same age as me, lots in common, but we did end up going our separate ways.

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That is why so many of us good single men can’t find love at all today since Feminism is everywhere now unfortunately. When women in their 50s say that men in their 60s are too old, it’s called a double-standard and it will backfire big time against you, ladies. Be realistic , guys in their 40s and 50s can easily date women in their 30s and 40s or even younger, that’s how the nature works because man’s prime time comes around 10 years later than the woman’s. It seems unfair but that’s the reality. You might be missing out on great guys you consider too old. I am women that is 55 years of age.

If he could throw me out of his life like trash I should have known he would throw away the dogs he wanted that I raised for him. The dogs will be with me until they leave this world because I believe in owning up to my responsibilities, but after that I am done with dogs. I am a spiritual person and I think we were given this precious gift of connection with others as a reminder of the deep connection we have with our Creator. It’s the closest thing to heaven we will ever have on earth, beating out by far our feelings after the 197th Yoga class, buying the new sportscar, or getting the degree at 47. When you are close to someone you love with your entire heart and soul you aren’t even thinking about all the non-essential stuff in life, and most things are indeed non-essential. After being in intimate relationships with men all of my adult life there is no way I could have an intimate relationship with a woman.