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I lost out on the most important time of life, to be in a relationship with a woman. Even as a teenager, I was constantly rejected by girls. It was not until my early 20’s that I managed to get a date. It took almost 10 years before I was able to get a first date with someone. By late my late 20’s, I finally was able to find someone.

I learned how to be a better kisser for example. I thought I had forgotten how to do that. Make out sessions before sex really set the mood. If the erection goes away, oh well, it will come back soon. In the meantime, enjoy kissing and holding each other by the fire.

Plus, as Sherman says, refusing to «succumb to outer social pressure, shame, stigma or limiting beliefs» will help your relationship survive. Whether it’s an established career, well-raised kids, or stories from those years you spent backpacking around Europe, you have lived. That’s something to be proud of, and a man who’s still in adulthood’s first act just might be dazzled by the fact that you’re seasoned.

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Alex…Good luck with that Match profile. From the sounds of it you won’t get many responses. If only we didn’t live on opposite coasts…lol. It’s pretty crappy when people have become as self centered and selfish as what we are running into. It doesn’t give much hope to those that really just want something meaningful without all the BS.

He may end up pulling the ‘at your age’ card more often than you like. It can become an irritant, if not taken in the right spirit. As with anyone with more years and experience behind them, your older partner is likely to be right about many things. So rather than doing things just to defy him, try to learn from his experiences. Men in their 20s, 30s, and 40s are still proving themselves.

It seems that the only way to get a man is to play the right game. I am not good at games, especially mind games. I prefer to be my down to earth, grounded self. It is unfortunate that it is hard to find the genuine, considerate men like you in every day interactions. The last few men I have dealt with just disappeared. It appears that the guys who seem to need and want love the most just push it away when it is right there under their noses.

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We had hours long discussions for years before getting married, about the age difference, and she always maintained it would never bother her and we would grow old together, no matter what. Tom – “…75% of husbands in 65% of RS are no good, an unlikely number.” You are correct it’s unlikely. In fact, I recall reading a large study where many women who initiated a divorce at age 50 or shortly thereafter stated that there was nothing really wrong with their ex-husbands.

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I almost dated a doctor 6 yrs older than myself but thought it likely that he would end up hurting me because he was attractive, had options, and did not want to marry again. When I join dating sites, I talk to men on the phone and most of the time, do not feel enough of a connection to make me want to talk to them again. I don’t know what is wrong with me. When I like someone, I like them too much that its scary ….

Don’t: Push for what he doesn’t want

I am a woman of old fashioned values, and although I support women’s equality and the progression of women, I think some have taken it too far to where they no longer value men for what men can offer. To Amanda, You’re a complete idiot altogether and a loser as well. And it is women like you that really did destroy the dating scene for many of us good men really looking for love today. Sex is definitely important in a loving relationship. It needs to be combined with kindness, respect, compromise, and affection. When you have all of that you’ve got a lot.

Not only are these women unattractive to me, but if I think to the future, this means heart attack, diabetes, hip and knee replacements and couch potato, none of which seem interesting. Is this someone I’m going to travel with as I age, or be able accompany me up a mountain or even on a slow bike ride? When my doctor told me to lose weight 15 years ago, I lost 40 pounds in 3 months and kept it off, so it can be done. So I guess unless you did what you were supposed to do when you were supposed to do it when everyone is young and attracted to each other you are shit outta luck. Biology/social worth is a cruel bitch. These issues, coupled with the anti-male bias in divorce court, make the prospect of a relationship or marriage to the modern western woman an endeavor fraught with peril.